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Running Is the New Golf

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  The best way to develop meaningful network has nothing to do with “networking.” It’s about doing good work, having the courage to put it out there, and engaging with people on topics you care about. - Brad Stulberg   Building a shared sense of community helps create the relationships and interactions that bring people together and make teams successful. Community is a core part of building a culture in a world where we have a thousand things to do. Exercise routines are often the first thing to get sacrificed in the long list of other priorities.   Historically, golf has been a great sport for business - however, only afforded by select few. The whole point is the select few are gunning for the CEO or higher positions, hence the starting point itself is expensive and not available to all. The use of handicapping allows mixed skill groups to compete and there’s plenty of time to talk. But golf takes too long for most of us and can be more frustrating than relaxing a...

The Nimbus Clouds of Grief

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  “How did we even get here?”  This question comes out like a bullet wrapped in frustration, sorrow, and fear; shot aimlessly into the open air, from most of us from different backgrounds and different life experiences. Some mourning the bereavement of their loved ones due to COVID-19, some recovering from the infection, some caregivers to their significant others or family members in recovery, and some who had not been physically affected by the virus. Yet, all of us have the same question in mind.  And none of us are expecting an answer. This bullet in our hearts just needs a release.    Why are people who have not witnessed death or even had a positive COVID 19 infection in their family, experiencing grief? The answer lies in the larger connection among them - the human connection.   The COVID19 nimbus clouds have rained...

The Pandemic Has Greyed My Hair

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  The Pandemic Has Greyed My Hair   Spring is the time when the weather becomes warmer Trees begin to bear leaves and plants start to flower Alongside comes the pandemic sweeping the world away Making its way through my layer The pandemic has greyed my hair   While we thought that was the worst that could happen  We did our best for the curve to flatten With jobs and migrant workers left to sadden What more is there to say? The pandemic has greyed my hair   Work from anywhere becomes a norm  Sweeping and mopping take us by storm Children lean to a new platform While teachers too need to transform Marathons being run inside people’s homes Is this a kind of a new syndrome? All this seems so rare The pandemic has greyed my hair   While things didn’t look as bad  Cooking and baking became a new fad  From dalgonas to exotic dishes Only if these were to last as wishes Little did we know these would be soon to wear The pandemic has greyed my hair ...

The Keys To A Consistent Physical Practice

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“To practice regularly, even when you seem to be getting nowhere, might at first seem onerous. But the day eventually comes when practice becomes a treasured part of your life. You settle into it as if into your favorite easy chair. It will be there for you tomorrow. It will never go away.”  George Leonard, the late aikido master and philosopher of human potential   Everyone can benefit immensely from cultivating a regular physical practice. Physical means using your body. Practice means something undertaken for its own sake. Examples include running, cycling, swimming, lifting weights, vigorous walking, gardening, martial arts, rowing, yoga, climbing etc.  The indisputable and measurable benefits of physical practices include enhanced physical health, mental health, and creativity. Beyond that, such activities bring about deep confidence that comes with getting to know yourself from the inside out, the transcendence of peak experie...

The Motivation Contagion – every person matters

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"The makeup of your social circle has profound implications for your own behavior"  Brad Stulberg & Steve Magness Fitness is contagious. Who impacts that the most? The least fit person in your group. Researchers found: "If half of your friends were to become among the least fit for reasons unrelated to you, your own fitness level would drop by nearly 20 percent…" It turns out that motivation can function almost like a disease. It is contagious and can work its way through your peer group in the same way that the flu potentially can. To coaches, teachers, managers, leaders or anyone who deals with motivating groups of people this shouldn’t sound too surprising. It’s referred to as “team culture.” In 2010, the US Air Force Academy set out to understand why some cadets increase their fitness while others do not. They tracked the cohort of cadets over 4 years. Cadets spent a vast majority of their time interacting with peers in their squadron where the squadron was ...

Losing creativity in workouts - The dangers of classification

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There are no magical workouts or magical zones. People always want to know how certain exercises impact and how one classifies them. Every time someone asks you a question about a workout, and you tell them exact details, then they’d say “you mean, a Vo2max workout” for example. In your head you think “No. There’s more than that”, but mostly agree. Training has become engrained with the idea of classifying workouts based mainly on distance and speed. It’s human nature to divide the world into neat and manageable pieces.  How can you break free from the grasp of classification and not lose your creativity? Getting “stuck” We have lost all creativity by making it more scientific and calculated. If we see 400m repeats, it gets automatically processed as “anaerobic” or whatever it is in our classification. In the words of Daniel Kahneman (psychologist, economist & author), we default to our fast system 1 thinking, never allowing system 2 to even have a check. In other words, t...

Your Environment Invites Action & Influences Habits

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  “Being intentional about our surroundings is essential to eliciting our best performance.”  Mihaly Csikszentmihalyi. From his book ‘The Evolving Self: A Psychology for the Third Millennium’. You are tired after a long day’s work. When you sign off from work, you have intentions to exercise, but that nice comfy couch is calling your name. You can’t resist the pull of sitting down, turning on the TV or just eating and relaxing thereby skipping your exercise.  There is a battle between the goal (e.g. exercising) and your body’s natural pull towards the path of least resistance. Sitting is a lot easier than stepping out and burning calories or picking up the weights at home (since you can’t hit the gym in these times). Our bodies are made to conserve energy, especially when we feel drained. Your brain has tied that piece of furniture (couch/bed) to relaxation and areas in your brain related to taking that action begin to light up. This occurs well before you’ve made the act...